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Saturday, April 28, 2007

Books That Could Change Your Life

The Autobiography of Malcom X - This book showed me that a man can change his life and his destiny through spirituality and persistence, and can reinvent himself over and over again as he grows. When I first read it, I was stuck in one of those periods where “my religion is right and yours is wrong”, and my brain just couldn’t comprehend how someone from such a different background and brand of spirituality could do what he did.

The Dancing Wu-Li Masters - while reading this one, I was finally able to marry the spiritual side of my thinking to the scientific side. It opened my mind to the possibilities out there that I couldn’t see with my eyes or touch with my hands.

Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude - my regular readers won’t be surprised by this one. It was the first time I saw that I could take regular, consistent action on solid principles that I could wrap my mind around. I’m still working my way through it for the second time, and it’s better than it was the first!

Be sure to check out Phil’s post for all of the other responses.
http://makeitgreat.typepad.com/makeitgreat/2007/04/3_favorite_book.html

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Are Our leaders Driven By Emotions ?

Do you believe your emotions are weaknesses you must suppress to succeed? What if I told you that your emotions were not an obstacle to success but a critical ingredient in your success?
I found couple of books that explained my problem and what to do about it. The first was Executive EQ and the second was Leadership: The Inner Side of Greatness.

Here are some of the secrets in these books:

Great leaders accept their feelings and allow themselves to feel their feelings fully. That’s right! They allow themselves to feel their fear in all its intensity. They don’t try to suppress it or step around it or deny it. They don’t fight it. They accept it and feel it. A great leader doesn’t believe something is wrong with him when he feels a particular feeling. Wow! What an eye opener! Tiger Woods feels fear too! He knows that denying his feelings leads to physical and emotional exhaustion. I never knew that. I thought I was a freak for feeling the things I felt.

Great leaders know the difference between conscious emotional action and impulsive emotional re-action. Some might call this emotional maturity. When children feel angry they may hit people or break things. This is an emotional re-action. Some of us don’t know how to stop re-acting impulsively to our emotions and it carries into adulthood. When we feel a particular way, we re-act negatively or we channel one emotion to a different emotion and re-act incongruently. For example – a man may feel that he cannot re-act to his sorrow, so he channels his sorrow into anger and re-acts violently instead. It is impulsive re-action most people think of when they imagine an emotional person.

Great leaders feel their emotion, name their emotions, and act on them. For example: A great warrior will feel her fear in battle, understand that she is afraid, and interpret it as a message to act with courage. A Native American friend once told me, “In my culture, we are taught to trust our feelings. We do not shun feelings. We understand they are messages from nature that we need to take action. Feelings are messages from the spirit world.”

Great leaders trust their intuition. Intuition is the art of knowing without reasoning. Great leaders know that intuition is the shortcut to making great decisions quickly. We can all access our intuition if we learn to listen to our hunches. As a child, I solved complex math problems correctly using only intuition, and the teacher punished me for cheating and told me what I was doing was impossible. I had no desire to write out pages of work to solve a problem that I already knew the answer to. After that, I gave up on math and my intuition. I learned the lesson my teacher was teaching. It took me almost thirty years to unlearn that lesson.

Great leaders broadcast positive emotions. Great leaders have learned to use their minds to feel and broadcast Love, Hope, Desire, Sex Appeal, Confidence, Joy, Trust, and Faith to other people. Watch the great speeches from MLK to Steve Jobs. How do they make you feel? Where do you think that comes from?

Great leaders do the seemingly impossible using imagination combined with positive emotion. They create a novel, a piece of artwork, a political movement, a military victory, an invention, or a great theory, by first imagining it in detail while feeling positive emotions like passion, love, and faith. Without intense focused emotions, there would be no world changing creations.

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Why believe The Simple Truth When lies Are More Exiciting?

Check This Funny site.
http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/brainstorming-ways-to-get-attention-online/

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Scam With Difference

Thousands of people have been 'fleeced' into buying neatly coiffured lambs they thought were poodles.

Entire flocks of lambs were shipped over from the UK and Australia to Japan by an internet company and marketed as the latest 'must have' accessory.

But the scam was only spotted after a leading Japanese actress said her 'poodle' didn't bark and refused to eat dog food.
Read more:http://www.metro.co.uk/news/article.html?in_article_id=46730&in_page_id=34

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