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Tuesday, December 19, 2006

Smoking and its Ashes(2)

Have u thought when exactly u started smoking,I asked.I think it would be from teen ages,right?Yes,Vineet said.From Freud point of view,Your mother's breast was taken away from you earlier than you wanted and it is just substitute what you are doing now.Not because of anxieties and other reason u have given,it have psychological roots.Even Freud has gone so far and said that if we want to stop smoking,then start sucking our thumb,or night before you go to bed,have a bottle with a rubber nipple fixed to it,fill the bottle with warm milk and suck it-become a child again.Thats what the smoking is doing.The warm smoke going in and out symbolizes the milk of the mother.
One of the great things in life is that if you understand the root cause of something you can overcome it without any trouble,without any willpower,you would not justifiy your wrong doings.

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Smoking over coffee

Vineet and me had long conversation over coffee whether its harmful or enjoyable?Vineet said"see,why do we smoke"? because it helps me in some way.It relax me,taking my mind away from my constant occuptions,my worries,my anxieties.People smoke only when they are very tense.If you dont smoke,your tension goes on accumulating,which is far more dangerous than smoking.Smoking is just stupid,not dangerous-maybe you will live one or two years less-so what? What are you going to do even if you live two or three years more?If you have not done anything in seventy years,what are you hoping to do in those extra two years?
But people try to contol it.If they succeed they become egoistic,which is far more dangerous.If they fail they feel guilty,they feel depressed,which is far more dangerous.If they fail they become condemnatory towards themselves,they lose respect for themselves.And the moment you lose respect for yourself remember,you are losing your trust in your life,Vineet concluded.
So, "you are justifying your habit with tooth and nail",I said.( be continued)

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